Skip to main content

Teeter-totter


Do you remember teeter-totter or see saw in playground where kids play?



Of course you do! 😁

It is basically a board which is balanced in the center where a person sits on each end and as one lands on the ground,the other flies high in the sky and when its the turn of the latter the former delights bouncing into the sky. But you must be wondering why am i describing you this mechanism in detail? Right? 

Well,all i wanted to briefly explain is that the cycle of life also works the same way. At one point we are so much elated by the good things that happen to us and at other times are desolated miserably.We cant be immensely happy and sad in the same time! That's ridiculous! Nobody can or else they would be labelled as a lunatic!

When negative thoughts trap our mind, during that course of time no positive thoughts replace our thinking until we consciously make an effort to substitute with it.Similarly,the See Saw also functions that way. All we have to do is balance our life smoothly so that too many extremes doesn't injure us in any way.

 Time and again,it is proved that if an individual doesn't control himself then either pessimism will lead to melancholy and depression or too much excitement will lead to mania or bipolar disorder.

 So isn't it favorable for us to balance our life cautiously?

 Perhaps now you would be thinking that if we would consider balancing our lives then it would create havoc! Yes,it would but whose asking you to balance your life all the time? I cant balance my own life at all times! Nobody can! 

 Alas! Life can never be neutral but all i am simply trying to make sense is that when life is in shackles,you can only save yourself mentally and find solutions to the problem and on the contrary when life seems full of magnificence,you don't go overboard but at times remain calm and composed.

 Balancing doesn't mean that you are controlling your response altogether but maneuvering in such ways that it doesn't provide you any harm.

For Example; when two kids play see saw they are consciously reminded by their parents to enjoy playing but not hurt each other.In the same manner do we need to follow the method plainly.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Where You Are Now Matters

When I ask you, where are you now? It matters. Where you are is the time when you can create your own world. You can live your life the way you want, you can quit working that job that burns out your energy, you can come back home and start your life from a scratch, you can decide to climb the mountains instead of doing those old chores you don't want to do anymore. Yes, it absolutely matters where you are at present. This is your chance to make your sand castle and turn your dreams into a reality. Stop relying on others to help you. Help yourself. I know you have been dying to visit that dream destination so chalk out ways to get there or make plans how you would get there. Do not let any negative thought affect you. Yes, you can do it. You can create a life you have always wanted in your dreams. Let that dream become a reality. Start working on that dream and find out ways where you can reach your destination.  You know that when you go on a road trip, you always find signbo...
Post a Comment
Read more

If You Were There..

"If you were there, I would have confessed my feelings to you,if you were there, I would have been happy,if you were there, I would have appreciated and thank god for your presence.." Payal wrote this poem for her secret admirer who had disappeared from her life. About one day b efore ... At the middle of night,she receives a call from Raj,Dheeraj's best friend saying that Dheeraj had been disappeared from  his farm house when they were about to surprise him as the clock would strike twelve.They searched for him everywhere in the house but he was no where to be found. "Where would he go? And how is that possible nobody saw him? Someone must have!"Payal questioned "I know you are concerned about him as you like him the most but what else can we do?we searched everywhere including the store room and backyard!"Raj said "If that so,why don't you ask your neighbors?" Payal suggested "We could have but it's 1...
Post a Comment
Read more

Self Love And Relationships

When you don't love yourself, you do not appreciate anything in your life including the people and the things you have. Albert Einstein said, "Nothing happens until something moves". The question is, are you willing to make a move and love yourself? Are you willing to accept who you are including the flaws you have? Are you willing to change your life? If yes, then my friend you have come to the right place and I am here to make you fall in love with yourself. You must have noticed that when people love you and you don't receive the love back with equal affection or don't return their love, they simply block you from their life or walk out from your life. And then you feel that nobody loves you, that you are alone, you feel lonely and you think people don't love you. This life of misery continues until you realize that you are the one who was blocking out all the love from outside because you didn't have love within you. What I would like to...
1 comment
Read more