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Self Love And Relationships

When you don't love yourself, you do not appreciate anything in your life including the people and the things you have.

Albert Einstein said, "Nothing happens until something moves".

The question is, are you willing to make a move and love yourself?

Are you willing to accept who you are including the flaws you have?

Are you willing to change your life?

If yes, then my friend you have come to the right place and I am here to make you fall in love with yourself.

You must have noticed that when people love you and you don't receive the love back with equal affection or don't return their love, they simply block you from their life or walk out from your life. And then you feel that nobody loves you, that you are alone, you feel lonely and you think people don't love you. This life of misery continues until you realize that you are the one who was blocking out all the love from outside because you didn't have love within you.

What I would like to invite you to do is, start loving yourself. 

Tell yourself, "I am Love, I am beautiful, People get attracted to me, People love me" 

Say that, repeat it again and again and really feel every word as you say. Generate that 'I feel good feeling' when you repeat those words. Stand in front of the mirror, smile and say those words everyday before you leave for your work or college. And you will feel the abundance of postive energy rush within you. You will feel confident about yourself. You will actually feel beautiful, you will love yourself. 

Remember, self love is a daily practice. Do it daily, but not as a chore, or as a monotonous routine that you are forced to do. Smile, inhale and exhale and smile, let your cheeks spread the happiness within you and then say the affirmative lines. 

When you will start feeling confident about yourself, you will create a positive environment around you and there will be improvements and transformation of your relationships. You will actually begin to feel it. 

Tell yourself every morning, "I am going to have an amazing day! This is going to be the best day of my life!" 

Say that often in your mind while you look at yourself in the mirror and really smile. Smile for yourself. Feel good about yourself. And believe that you are going to have an amazing day and you'll notice how your day is turning out the way you had intended it to be. 

Affirm yourself everyday, "I love myself."

You will feel that you are pure love and you are responsible for your own happiness. That you are pure joy. After this, when your parents would say I love you, you wouldn't shy away from their love. you will say, "I love you too mom/dad!" 

Like this, you will equally give and receive love to everyone and you will attract and get attracted by people who love themselves and are joyful and optimistic in their life. 



Love begins with you. You are love. You spread happiness and love around the world. When you will get this thing, love will never leave you, it will reside in your heart permanently. 

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