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Love them when they need you


When one observes the lows of his life so does he know the worth of hard work in times of failure.

Yes,i am talking about the 'failure' that is necessary in our lives for nurturing our self and how does one nurture oneself?

By polishing yourself ! Just like one polishes their shoes when it gets dirty the same way do we have to remove the dirt and scrub our better side to come out and shine like never before.

Have you ever thought what happens when a child falls down while riding bicycle for the first time?



Most probably he begins crying then makes an effort to stand up,dusts off his clothes and again hesitantly but with a little hope sits on the bicycle and begins riding.Well,don't we also do that in the similar fashion in our life? Yes,we do! We break down due to our failures,feel sorrowful,think about attempting more mistakes regardless of the fact that more hurdles are out there to be defeated and then without further delay set on our journey once again.

But then what happens to few people when they fail?

Not all people have the grace to appreciate failure in a positive fruitful way.Not everyone gets convinced, sadly! 

Some people brake down when they get failures at their doorstep,some give up ultimately attempting suicide and some run away from their problems.

But does running away or giving up from failures is the permanent solution for all the problems? 

Of course not! And it is really important to help those lost souls who are unable to find answers on their own.Suppose if your sibling/loved one is appearing for a board exam/interview it is necessary that as a family you must provide unconditional support no matter what.They are anyway going through a hell lot of pressure and on the top of it if you add the pressure then the cooker pressure would eventually burst up!! That's a hazardous disaster!

So it is a humble request to support your loved ones in their endeavors patiently rather than building up stress and worry on them. Just support,strengthen,motivate them.

People always like to be loved and accepted.

Only if we love and motivate them to do better and not force upon a decision on them,things would be quite simple.

In the end only those people give up who were not uplifted by others when they had fallen to the ground.

All we have to do is be with them,listen to them carefully,let their hearts cry out,let their minds cool down and calm them down when they find no direction in their lives.

Whoever you are,be a friend,a brother,sister,a parent,cousin,relative or well-wisher,do the needful to help them and offer them guidance when they appear to be aimless.

Love them when they are unable to love themselves. 




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