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Why you must love yourself first



Ever since we are born, we look for love from others. First, it's our parents in infancy then friends in adolescence and finally a life partner in adulthood.

That's how it is and the problem in all these stages is, we are never taught to love ourselves. We constantly search for unconditional, pure love from the world but not in our souls.

And it's sad because you end up giving priority to others not yourself. You begin to find someone in your quest thinking he/she may love you. You give sole importance to their beauty, confidence and personality.

But what about your beauty? Are you not beautiful that you stand in front of the mirror and tell your self 'I am beautiful' instead of looking for validation and compliments from others?

Are you not confident enough to work on your health and fitness? Can't you just say to yourself 'Yes, I am improving and I'll get better as the days pass by' ? 

Can't you focus on improving your personality? Your walk, your style, your smile, your etiquette? 

Yes! You can do all that! Everything is possible!

Sadly, we always end up looking at others, praising all their good things and neglect that they too are humans and even they have improved with time because of which you can see this exciting transformation of theirs.

It's high time you stop giving attention to everyone. Stop looking out for attention from people. Stop fantasizing things, stop thinking that you'll meet someone suddenly who'll change you for good.

Now, it's time that you must begin loving yourself. Snooze the alarm, wake up from the bed, go to the mirror and look at yourself in the mirror.Yes, sweetheart you look beautiful. You look like an enchanting dream. You are no less than a prince/ princess.

If that doesn't work, take out one of those sticky notes and create a smiley face and stick it on your mirror as that would be a gentle reminder to you of how captivating your smile is. Your smile is worth more than a million dollar.

Love yourself first. Reserve the place of love in your heart first and then give it to everyone. Remember, with time you can always improve and progress. 

Focus on yourself, your dreams and ambitions. You must be first your own priority. Keep your head high at all times. Straighten your back, those slouchy shoulders is a sign of low self-esteem. 

You must love yourself for your heart, body, mind and soul. This mind is working because you are thinking, this heart feels love and tenderness because of your feelings, this soul is yours and you are breathing for yourself, to live your life. So, don't waste time and begin already walking on the path of self-love.

First Love Yourself


Always give yourself abundance of love everyday and then you'll see the vast potential of positive energy within you that would be shining brighter than a thousand suns. 

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