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Right Person at Right Time



Today i saw the movie "The Lunchbox". It's a wonderful display of daily lives of middle class people and the issues they come across.If you are not aware of it,it's a Bollywood movie about two people who are facing setbacks in their own individual life and how the circumstances happen in such a way that they find each other.



Well, if you think about it, it is a thought provoking film. As we watch the movie, somewhere in our minds a thought occurs that is it really possible? Can we find the right person for us ? Is that person somewhere around us and we are probably wondering if they exist ?

Life is funny! But of course,that definitely doesn't mean you would have to wait for the circumstances to happen or keep waiting for the right person to arrive. No! Absolutely not!

What i am trying to refer to is things happen in their own way.If we just go with the flow it's best for us rather than thinking about whether the right person is somewhere out there.

When you stay for a long time with your partner and still are unhappy,dissatisfied or feeling lonely then it's actually not the right thing to force yourself and live in a relationship whose foundation has shaken completely.

You can simply figure out within few months whether the person is suitable for you or not.

It's better to live alone than with someone who's merely bothered with your existence,isn't it?

When the right person enters you have this intuition or a strong feeling that this is the one for whose presence i had been waiting for.

One day out of the blue,that one person whose rightly meant for you will appear.

Although Unexpectedly.

Be patient,relax and breathe!

Because the things that are meant to happen will happen.Only time can tell if you are fortunate enough to find that beautiful soul sooner or later.May be he/she is in your neighborhood, known to your friends or family,senior to you in college or to be randomly found on internet.But you are going to meet this person soon enough! 

You never know while you were searching for something else in your life and then you meet the man/woman of your life. All the way you were totally engrossed in your work,were expected to meet someone else and you ended up meeting the perfect person for you.

It could be a set of circumstances following up and then bam! There you are!

Just like in the movie,there's a beautiful dialogue said by the character Ila,"Kabhi Kabhi galat train bhi sahi jagah pahucha deti hai"

 
Sometimes the wrong train also leads us to the right direction
 

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