The Feeling Pen

We always live in future as if living in the future is the only way to deal with our reality in present. We think about the time when we will get married or when our prince charming would come or sweep us off of our feet. Where is my Cinderella? Why is she taking so long to come! When will my results come out? My god! This stress is killing me! I'm not even able to enjoy my vacations because of this stress! When will I finally look like a hero or heroine? When, when and when! This when makes us stick to our future all the time! We don't enjoy our present. We don't take the benefit or pleasure in present. Everything that pops up into our mind is related only to our future life. We have become so futuristic that now we only envision our life in future and the present holds no importance to us anymore. It's always the when and the how and the future. Firstly, we tend to do that because we are not happy with our present. Second of all, we think that living in future wi...

When you'll stop thinking about how people will react or what people will think, that's the time, you will truly begin living your life. When you will not care whether they are going to talk behind your back or spread rumors and even if they do, none of it matters to you because you have started giving importance to yourself, peace of mind will automatically come to you. When you really don't care about others harsh opinions and only your work and life is your main priority, your life will fall into place. When even if someone says to you in your face that you are undeserving or unworthy of this thing, you know they are saying only to make you feel small but it affects you the least.  The day people's opinions don't matter to you at all, that's the day you will truly start living your life. Your main goal of your life will be your career and no one would come in your way, knowing that they cannot disrupt your peaceful life without you being affected int...

When you don't love yourself, you do not appreciate anything in your life including the people and the things you have. Albert Einstein said, "Nothing happens until something moves". The question is, are you willing to make a move and love yourself? Are you willing to accept who you are including the flaws you have? Are you willing to change your life? If yes, then my friend you have come to the right place and I am here to make you fall in love with yourself. You must have noticed that when people love you and you don't receive the love back with equal affection or don't return their love, they simply block you from their life or walk out from your life. And then you feel that nobody loves you, that you are alone, you feel lonely and you think people don't love you. This life of misery continues until you realize that you are the one who was blocking out all the love from outside because you didn't have love within you. What I would like to...

When they say you can't do it, push yourself ahead and prove to yourself that you can do it so that you feel proud of it. When you feel opposition from other side, belittling and teasing about how you are a loser, don't listen to them instead find ways to be the master of your own destiny. When they say that you are dumb or broke or unemployed, don't waste your energy on them, find the joy to live your life, work hard in your profession or career so that tomorrow you are amazed by your own successful life. When they say that you have a useless idea, nevertheless try it, see why it can work and if it doesn't work, may be you'll find some other idea or some inspired action to do that will create a miracle in your life. When they say you are illiterate or you don't have the money for education, find ways to study, go to library and study, find second hand books to study, there are always solutions to every problem. When they say you will fail don't t...

Sometimes, things will not happen the way we planned it out to be and you will feel bad because of that occurrence. Don't recall that experience. There is always something better that's coming your way, for your good. Sometimes, there will be some nasty people who will interfere in your life because they want to, not because they want to help you or guide you. They are insecure to see you happy in your life and want to create a feeling of unworthiness and uselessness in you. Do not give undue attention to them. In fact, feel pity for them that they can't see their lack of self love in their lives. Sometimes, there will be people in your life who would want to desperately pull you down, make you feel as if you are good for nothing. Don't fall for that trap. They do that so that they can swap away all the good vibes you generate around you and replace it with bad vibes. Don't curse them, don't badmouth. They can't see that they are living a life full of u...

I want you to know that when you feel let down by your situation, there is always another opportunity to cease in your life that will make you forget about the situation altogether. I want you to know that when at nights, you are reminded of the old memories that make you feel like you are in prison, its time to break free yourself and live in the present so that you never dwell in your past. I want you to know that there may be times when you feel that your life is over and that you have nothing to lose but that's not the reality, there is much more to see, look beyond your observation and you will find roads where there was once nothing. I want you to know that when you feel that you don't have the strength to continue the struggle in your life, compare your past with your present and you will know how far you have reached. I want you to know that in life nothing is same, every minute, every hour brings up new things to our lives and we need to keep our eyes wide ope...

There are times when you feel lonely and unwanted because you had been giving attention to someone who considered you unimportant.  There are times you feel exhausted because you had been chasing someone who wasn't ready to give you the respect that you had been yearning from them all the time. There are times you know you wanted them so bad that you felt you would die but they are not giving you any signal, leave alone right or wrong. There are times you want them to know how much you love them, that your love is unmatched, immeasurable and that it cannot be compared with anyone and yet they are blind to notice anything. There are times you see them in your dreams and you want them to know how much you care for them, for every little thing but they act like its none of their business. There are times when you feel you have waited for them too long, that more than that could kill you from within enormously but they know nothing about this feeling. There are times you d...