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Why She's Not Giving You Attention

When she wanted your attention, you were busy giving someone else your attention. 

When she wanted you, you neglected her and pretended like she never existed.

When she called you, you rejected and skipped her calls.

When she texted you first, you only replied then. 

When she was the first one to call, you didn't appreciate her confidence.

When she confessed her feelings, you pretended like she was a desperate woman wanting relationship like anything. 

Yes, you as a guy were never the one to call or text her first as you didn't have the guts to do that while she did. You never complimented her when she truly looked beautiful but kept it in the recesses of your heart. You never proclaimed your love or affections for her. 

You denied her the love, the attention, the respect, the time and efforts she kept waiting for so long. You treated her like a piece of crap. You never truly loved her for if you did, you would have never denied your feelings for her at the first place. You were a fool to think she would come to know about your feelings like she were a fortune teller. You never appreciated her efforts to be around you, talk to you, engage time with you. 

For all you did was took her for granted. Granted. That's all you did. When it was the right time to say to her how you felt about her, you kept your mouth shut. Instead of thinking straight and clearly stating your feelings to her, you messed up her feelings and your life in the process.

And now, you demand to know why she's walked away from you. Now you ask, why she's leaving. Now you feel the heartache when she's leaving you and living her life in peace while you broke her to pieces. Now you are thinking to tell her about your deepest affections for her. Now, when the time has already passed. 

She has left your life and is not giving you the attention because you made her feel unloved and insecure. She has left your life for good. Not because you broke her heart but because she wanted you to know how you made her feel while she was in pain. 



It's the pain that gives you more important lessons to learn than love itself.  

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