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Emotional Attachment

We all are attached to certain things or certain people and being emotionally or mentally attached makes the bond more strong.

As humans it is our tendency to hold on to things for too long and even though it may occur to be formidable,but it can be unattached too.

In addition to this,our minds are wired such a way that we keep on remembering,recollecting those memories.Although,it does not hold significance in present yet we continue to harass ourselves with those memories and souvenirs.Then the next we do is heading back to our past now.





When one breaks up with another,the person becomes devastated and gets a blow in his face as the another takes the decision.Months pass by,the first person moves on,focusing on present whereas the second person is still haunting himself being in the past,this person is unable to move on and gets stuck in that part of time which has altogether no importance in his present.

Another example could be of a child who has lost her mother.She was so much dependent on her mother for every little thing that now she is terribly missing her and even though she might be trying hard to do work on her own but at times,she doesn't do it at all.

Attachment could be of any type;mental,emotional,physical or spiritual.

However,what matters in the present is whether it is of any value today or not.If it has its worth.

If your boyfriend/girlfriend has moved on,you must also!Your commitment now should only be you,your family and other close ones.Yes,no doubt,they were a part of your life but now they are not,so why bother and burden your shoulders with the heavy weight!




Somebody left you due to circumstances,ill-fate,tragedy,accident etc;well,it is not your fault,stop blaming yourself and peacefully accept the fact that they are gone.Easy to say but it might take months or even a year to come to terms with the fact that they have disappeared from your lives,once and for all.

The attachment can only be held relevant when those people are very much physically present and are a part and parcel of our lives,not when they are absent.

The more we will understand this,the better we will respect our time.

  


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